tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post4586322151722830803..comments2013-12-11T21:00:48.745-08:00Comments on sarah-beth photography: don't wait. please don't wait, make excuses, or put it off.Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01503376703539415834noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-44390827342607620422011-03-25T13:20:53.776-07:002011-03-25T13:20:53.776-07:00Thank you so much for sharing this information wit...Thank you so much for sharing this information with us. I was heading back from Florida and stopped an hour short of seeing this accident. I am so thankful that I did not have to see it in person. The pictures on the news were more than enough. Brent, Melissa, Dylan, and Colton were neighbors of mine and we had a wonderful time grilling out and all gathering on the back patio two summers ago when Colton was really little. There were three families that would gather and we were amazed to find that we were all the same age and that we had all been with our spouses since high school. We thought that was probably unusual and loved spending time together and watching the kids play. I will always remember how good Brent was with all of the kids and how gentle he was with Colton. They are all in my prayers every night.Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08598717122902168212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-36496572003987876722011-03-25T11:45:57.872-07:002011-03-25T11:45:57.872-07:00Thanks everyone for continuing to pray for Melissa...Thanks everyone for continuing to pray for Melissa and the boys. Melissa is now extubated and can talk! She has her jaw wired shut for the next 6 weeks, but she is able to speak. She got to talk to Dylan (her 5 yo) on the phone this morning, what a blessing for both of them!<br /><br />We had our fundraiser for her yesterday and had an overwhelming response. Over $3,000 raised, and we aren't done yet!<br /><br />Praying for Melissa's return to Indy by Sunday. I can't wait to see my friend!<br /><br />And Diana, thank you so much for posting. It's amazing to me that you somehow found my blog. I didn't get much sleep that night either, and I appreciate your prayers very much. And I appreciate that you were praying for me, not knowing me, for being the one to receive the initial call. I think your prayers helped me through that night as well! <br /><br />You can read more updates on Melissa's condition on her caring bridge website, www.caringbridge.org/visit/melissaburns10.<br /><br />Thanks again, The Hock and Burns families I know are truly touched by every single prayer and kind word.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01503376703539415834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-61741610217902105612011-03-25T02:30:29.162-07:002011-03-25T02:30:29.162-07:00My family and I were at the scene of this tragic a...My family and I were at the scene of this tragic accident last week, and my husband and I couldn't sleep at all that night. The wreck was a little after 8:00, and I kept thinking that very soon someone would be getting a phone call that would change their lives forever. I prayed for that someone a lot that night. Now I know a little more about the family and the circumstances. It was a miracle that the mom and the 2 precious boys were spared. I will continue to pray for them and for their families and friends. Thank you for giving me a place to talk about this. It has been weighing so heavily on my heart all week!Dianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08207719177629510553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-5326117568689790242011-03-24T16:50:58.682-07:002011-03-24T16:50:58.682-07:00this is so tragic,, i lost my first husband on chr...this is so tragic,, i lost my first husband on christmas eve 1998 i was 6 mons preg with our 2nd child,, i deff know what this lady is goin thru, ty for sharing this... hugs!citygurl08https://www.blogger.com/profile/18183132108989051677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-7752387920361608892011-03-24T16:13:32.332-07:002011-03-24T16:13:32.332-07:00So sorry for your loss. I hope Melissa's condi...So sorry for your loss. I hope Melissa's condition is improving... I can't even begin to imagine what the family is going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.Shastahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05744327331629182014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-58541504299801943782011-03-24T16:12:29.569-07:002011-03-24T16:12:29.569-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Shastahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05744327331629182014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-31265149052548537632011-03-24T16:11:49.472-07:002011-03-24T16:11:49.472-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Shastahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05744327331629182014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-20965614479874659512011-03-24T13:56:48.347-07:002011-03-24T13:56:48.347-07:00If you wouldn't mind. Myself and alot of frien...If you wouldn't mind. Myself and alot of friends would like an update on Melissa's condition. Please and Thank You. Praying for this family.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09443244074365380427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-37585525220684647002011-03-24T13:00:30.206-07:002011-03-24T13:00:30.206-07:00I'm so sorry for the loss your family has expe...I'm so sorry for the loss your family has experienced and for the loss that your friend's family endures. The journey is just beginning for them and it's a pain that will never go away.<br />I was widowed almost 5 years ago. Granted it was Military so it's a little different, it's still SO difficult to endure and begin the 'new life', with raising two kids.<br />Thank you for sharing your story and my condolences again. My heart truly breaks for your friend...as I know a similar pain.Genesa Richardshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08361992260117736015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-14635602644929766632011-03-24T11:33:58.185-07:002011-03-24T11:33:58.185-07:00I am SO sorry for your loss! You have woken me UP!...I am SO sorry for your loss! You have woken me UP! I started my photography business when my daughter was denied SSI and medicaid. Since then I have not really had another photograoher take pictures of us because I hate my face, my weight, etc, etc. I am finding someone to take our pictures. soon. Thank you for this! Again, I am sorry for your loss and pray for them and their families!Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17257634097178583539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-37227430051417144252011-03-23T00:22:54.268-07:002011-03-23T00:22:54.268-07:00So sorry for the loss of your friend's husband...So sorry for the loss of your friend's husband, and for her injuries as well. Thank you for talking about it...you never know who needs to see/hear this. May the peace of God comfort you and their grieving families.John W. Key's 1st of 15https://www.blogger.com/profile/15725331208346124345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-88663108800342672582011-03-22T13:53:00.816-07:002011-03-22T13:53:00.816-07:00I'm so sorry for your friend's loss- and y...I'm so sorry for your friend's loss- and yours. I feel your pain. My friend lost her husband 5 years ago in the line of duty- leaving her a widow with 2 small children- 5 months and almost 2 years. My heart was broken for her. Luckily, her husband was a photographer on the side, and took family photos of all of them just 2 weeks before he was killed. They will cherish them forever.<br /><br />She has written a book about grieving and trying to get through everything. She is an AMAZING writer!! http://believenow.com/believe_book.aspx You can also do a search for more on her book.<br /><br />She also has an online journal here: http://journal.shawnsilvera.org/jennifer/2005/10/index.html This is the oldest post in the archives. She is now remarried to a wonderful man- something she NEVER dreamed she'd EVER be able to get to again. I still cry in joy when I think about how lost she was, to how strong she is now, and she's just amazing. If your friend has questions or anything too- she can even email her through that site. I went to school with Jennifer, and she's now devoted to helping others heal who have lost someone in their lives.<br /><br />((((HUGS)))) to you and your friend and family. I am a photographer myself, and completely know how much it would mean to have those last photos done. Or not to have done them.Tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01813734183171588542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-36847487662083463742011-03-22T11:26:39.582-07:002011-03-22T11:26:39.582-07:00So heart wrenching, thank you for sharing, sending...So heart wrenching, thank you for sharing, sending up prayers for your family and Melissa's.Mary Nichols Photographyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05703295808404711796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-54928515700269214522011-03-22T07:44:39.180-07:002011-03-22T07:44:39.180-07:00Hi Sarah,
My name is Emily and I actually came ac...Hi Sarah,<br /><br />My name is Emily and I actually came across your post from a fellow photographer - first and foremost, I'm so sorry. One can never explain why things happen - and the right words to say never seem to make their way out. However, I just wanted to say - THANK YOU - for sharing this. So often we all get caught up in our busy lives, our crazy hectic schedules ... this is a good reminder to love more, laugh more, dance in the rain more, hug our spouses and kids more, and follow our dreams. You ALL are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless each of you.<br /><br />~Emily{Emily} Hey Sisters! Photographyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11570129456382023408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-27395749911950673862011-03-22T05:13:07.948-07:002011-03-22T05:13:07.948-07:00So sorry for your grief, you will see good come fr...So sorry for your grief, you will see good come from this I know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-77465704964196720412011-03-21T20:29:59.172-07:002011-03-21T20:29:59.172-07:00Thank you so much for this, I had many of the same...Thank you so much for this, I had many of the same thoughts when my Grandma passed in November, and even blogged about it. It is so true. We should embrace every bit of what IS our life, instead of always wishing or waiting for something different. My heart goes out to you and your friends and their family. I hope you can find peace in your blessings.Angela Boonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00628874829270878672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-78242591360611130812011-03-21T17:31:07.298-07:002011-03-21T17:31:07.298-07:00As the person usually behind the camera in our pic...As the person usually behind the camera in our pictures, this really is a reminder for me to hand over the camera and be in those shots. And what a sad way to be reminded how important it is for me to be in those pictures.<br /><br />What a tragic loss - so sad for everyone.Careyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18236627069695181735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-52341250120089531152011-03-21T15:56:41.536-07:002011-03-21T15:56:41.536-07:00I'm so sorry for your loss. wow. and then such...I'm so sorry for your loss. wow. and then such words of wisdom to follow, thank you.Sonya Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15839648619836108551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-83688882230756001762011-03-21T15:41:55.252-07:002011-03-21T15:41:55.252-07:00Not only do you have a gift w/ the camera, you als...Not only do you have a gift w/ the camera, you also have a beautiful way w/ words. What a beautiful tribute to your friend and her husband. I definitely want to support them through the event at Lottie Dottie. Be in touch...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09808224773993197978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-79261752610699158052011-03-21T13:43:30.354-07:002011-03-21T13:43:30.354-07:00Last year I was contacted to do some family photos...Last year I was contacted to do some family photos, and the client and I touched base and decided to wait until nicer weather in the spring to book an appointment. In March I was listening to the news and had a chilling realization; a local police officer had been shot and killed. It was her husband.<br /><br />A few weeks after his death, we spoke and expressed both our regrets in putting off the session, and I told her how much I would love to do some photos of her and her 3 boys, eventually, when she was ready. It still haunts me to know what a blessing and comfort those recent family pictures could have been to all of them.<br /><br />It saddens me that the first time I met and photographed that lovely family, they were without their hero.<br /><br />Take those photos TODAY.hayleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11459191748010876691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-23349828034637013772011-03-20T13:50:12.521-07:002011-03-20T13:50:12.521-07:00I just want to let you all know that I so apprecia...I just want to let you all know that I so appreciate your comments and kind words! I also appreciate those of you that are brave enough to share your stories of loss. Thank you thank you.<br /><br />Yes, feel free to share this blog entry with anyone, I hope it is inspiring to those who need inspired and a wake up call to those that need one.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01503376703539415834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-71075238527545259512011-03-20T13:31:33.670-07:002011-03-20T13:31:33.670-07:00Thanks for sharing this story. It was a wonderful ...Thanks for sharing this story. It was a wonderful reminder for things we take for granted so easily. My heart goes out to their family.Tammynizehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07057132578060379262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-4431400281023227012011-03-20T13:21:55.958-07:002011-03-20T13:21:55.958-07:00Beautiful words and yet I'm so very sorry for ...Beautiful words and yet I'm so very sorry for your loss and those above this comment as well. Would you mind if I re-posted your post? Will be praying for your friend and her family.Elastagirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03299500446956218831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-5835849815310645692011-03-20T12:58:31.261-07:002011-03-20T12:58:31.261-07:00Thank you for sharing their story and for encourag...Thank you for sharing their story and for encouraging us all...even photographers, to not forget to get in front of the camera. I am going to pass this along, so that we may all be inspired from your words. <br /><br />I am thinking about your sweet friend Melissa and her boys.Nenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00401665677467872896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821970117579274640.post-43883604555490186282011-03-20T10:54:00.554-07:002011-03-20T10:54:00.554-07:00I cannot imagine the loss you are experiencing. Bu...I cannot imagine the loss you are experiencing. But as a photographer, I tell my clients that today is the perfect time to take pictures, and you'll never regret the family pictures you have done- You'll only regret the ones you didn't. <br /><br />Thank you so much for sharing this. I will keep you, and Melissa and her beautiful family in my prayers.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13932369156001215035noreply@blogger.com